It’s true! The prophets prophesied about it. People around me thought of it. Men of God always advised me about it but I never really thought that it was really going to happen this early. Well, truth be told, it has.

After all the endless presumptions and speculation, God has finally blessed me with a God-fearing woman of God. For some reason, I’ve had to pinch myself to believe that I’m getting married. Many well-wishers thought I should enjoy my bachelorhood for some more time but what matters most is that I pursue God’s will with absolute clarity.

God willing, at 10am on the 7th of April, Tiny Rajan and I will be joined together in holy matrimony in Bangalore by my Senior Pastor and spiritual father, Rev. Dr. M. A. Varughese.

Tiny was born and brought up in Kuwait in an orthodox Christian family. While she was studying for her Bachelor’s degree in Commerce in Bangalore, I had the opportunity to make her acquaintance along with some of her friends during a short break from my studies in Kodaikanal. And in that informal gathering, the Lord touched her through a vision of Jesus sitting by her side which led to her accepting Jesus as her personal Saviour.

Being a minister, who preached to so many to seek the will of God, it came to me as a challenge to be absolutely certain about the perfect will of God over my own life. It led to a season of much prayer and fasting to make sure that we both were in the will of God.

One evening, as I was seeking God in this matter, I received 7 consecutive visions confirming that this was from God and the Lord’s doing. I send a text message to a pastor friend asking for prayers without making mention of the matter. His reply was a vision of great celebration.

I continued seeking God for His perfect will in my life for a few more months. During that season, the Lord taught me to stop being anxious and start trusting God entirely with His will. What followed were many confirmations from beloved servants of God.

Ever since that time, my parents had also been praying and both the families agreed to move forward with this wedding. I would like to thank my little sister, Sarah (Shynu), for all her love and support.

Tiny Rajan

To tell you a little more about Tiny (pronounced as Ti-ni); she is a very shy person with a contagious love for Jesus.

I see the reflection of my prayer life in her. Someone as lost in God as I am and that was and still is the greatest attraction for me. At this moment, I would also thank all her wonderful, kind friends and family for their support and prayers. Tiny also is blessed with an older sister who recently gave birth to a beautiful baby boy named Brian Gins.

Tiny and I would, with the grace of God, start off our first crusade together from the 22nd of April in Kisaran, Indonesia.  I am asking for your double portion of prayers as we serve the Lord together. These meetings are immediately followed by the Annual Conference in Adoor, and then followed by meetings in Trivandrum and Tiruvalla in Kerala.

I am grateful for all your prayers and thank you for all your kind and loving comments. I will God willing after April 7th post our pictures HERE and for more updates meet you on twitter HERE.

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  • JGill

    Congrats bro!! wishing you all the best in you new life… May God Bless you and ypur wife to be with overflowing blessing, and bundles of joy!!

  • Shiju

    Congrats Shyju bro..GOD bless u…Remembering u and ur future family life in prayers…tk care….

  • http://www.mathewsnuggets.blogspot.com binsurobinson

    and by so reavealing . look out for those who will now jumb into a river and give up their ghosts – all because this handsome dude of a Guy didnt wanna marry them !!! whaaaaaat .. i can already hear them waiiiiiiling ..
    READ THIS VERSE from the Mathew's BIBLE –
    A VOICE was heard in BANGALORE , lamentation , weeping and great mourning , Expectant Gals weeping for their lost chance , REFUSING TO BE COMFORTED , because Shyju is no more SINGLE ! –
    The epistle of BRM , Book 2 vs 18 !!!
    and yes if u can find the entire chapter please courier it to me ….

    am sharing this on my blog and tweet !!!!

    • http://www.estherisblogging.blogspot.com Esther

      :) ))

    • http://www.mathewsnuggets.blogspot.com binsurobinson

      I created a simple Fun Stuff for people to link back to this post from my blog :)
      here is the link to the post …

      http://mathewsnuggets.blogspot.com/2010/04/blog-p

      N Joi your Day and Post pics sooooooooooooooooon :)

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  • Deana

    i’m sooooooooo happy for u…. always wantn to hav a God fearing person as my life partner… n cin ur life… wow i hav no owrds to xplain hw happy i am for u n thnkful to God for leading u so wonderfully in evry step of ur life.. prayers n luv always for u Both !! :)

  • Karuna Rajesh

    I wish you and Tiny a happy and a prosperous married life. May the Lord Jesus bless both of you abundantly as you, with one mind, work for the expansion of His Glorious Kingdom.

  • Donnie Philip

    Blessings to you both :)

  • http://www.multimediastudio.com jenson

    To God be all the glory… happy to hear your getting married and i must say your a very lucky man to be getting married when your just 18 :) jus kidding… Life is full of surprises so always look to Him and trust Him cause He maketh and worketh all things beautiful. Wish you both the choicest of blessings.

  • Sini

    Congratulations Man of God!!!!Be blessed!!!God is awesome!

  • Mia

    Love her coz she is God's gift to u more than for she being she….every tym difficult tyms hit jus remember u r God's gift 2 each other n then all doubts'll melt away….above all u'll've lotta reasons to thank Him n involve Him more in ur lives…God bless…

  • Paul

    Yay Yay,

    Congrates Bro.

    Yay Yay.

  • DR MOHAN C.THOMAS

    Dear brother,
    Praise the Lord!
    I congratulate you and wish you a very happy married life!
    God Bless you&wife,
    Pr Mohan C Thomas
    Bhilai

  • Ivy Ung

    Congratulations, I am sooooooooooooo happy for you. It's good to have family. Wish you lock.

    • Ivy Ung

      Congratulations, I am sooooooooo happy for you. It's good to have family.Good lock.

  • Mia

    Love her coz she is God's gift to u more than for she being she….every tym difficult tyms hit jus remember u r God's gift 2 each other n then all doubts'll melt away….above all u'll've lotta reasons to thank Him n involve Him more in ur lives…God bless…

    Jus another sis in Christ!

  • roy

    wow..that's great news shyju…GOD bless u and tiny….

  • Tibi & Jerry

    congratulations shyju mathew, we wish you a very blessed family life that is full of wisdom n knowledge from above ( from christ jesus) coz as you know that is the only thing carry us through in family life, so may you guys have lots n lots of that from JESUS, and we wish you THE VERY BEST in your life .

    luv and prayers

    Tibi & Jerry.

  • Nitya Regmi

    oh wow! Many Congratulations Shyju!! God bless you both!

  • Preeth

    congrats

  • http://www.jesusisthewinner.blogspot.com christy

    Hmmm….I can hear d weddin bells….wooww….that was a big testimony…..am extrmely happy 4 u both…..n may god bless u n tiny abundantly,as u do HIS work 2gether….may GOD giv HIS blessings 2 u both!!

    Blessed are all who fear the LORD,
    who walk in his ways.
    2 You will eat the fruit of your labor;
    blessings and prosperity will be yours.

    3 Your wife will be like a fruitful vine
    within your house;
    your sons will be like olive shoots
    around your table.

    4 Thus is the man blessed
    who fears the LORD.

    5 May the LORD bless you from Zion
    all the days of your life;
    may you see the prosperity of Jerusalem,

    6 and may you live to see your children's children.
    Peace be upon Israel.

  • Claude

    Congrats Shyju for a new begnning in your life!!!!

  • Pooja

    Congrats Shy! So happy for u! Also glad tht your last bachelor preachin is gonna b in our church & Mumbai…cant wait! :) See u on Sunday! God Bless!!!

  • Nahid

    hey Shyjuu…. Congratulations… Remain Blessed!

    Give my Luv to Tiny.. Miss her alot! :) )

    Me, Wishes you both a very happy and Bountiful life together… Amen ! :) ))
    Cheers
    Nahid – Kuwait!

  • Sunil John Korah

    Congrats…and God Bless…Sunil Uncle

  • Joice & Rony

    Blessings to you both :)

  • prasanth jose

    dear shyju……………….

    i wish all the best to your future life…..i will remember both of yours name in my prayer……. bro…..very happy to hear this wonderful news…….god bless

  • Preeth

    so r u officially getting imprisoned in 7 days :) ? congrats anyway..

  • sam

    God Bless you!!! have a blessed life!

  • neelam

    congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!God bless both of u

  • Syle

    Congratulations!

  • Payal

    Congrats. god bless you with abundance in everything.

  • Letchemi

    Congratulations.

    God's Blessings be always be upon you and Tiny and May the Lord Bless both of you in His work.

    God Bless,

    Letchemi

  • aishwarya

    ccccccoonnnggrraaaates….!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Dr shan G

    congrats shyju ..my best wishes, regards and prayers…

  • MaliniRajkumar

    Praise the Lord… God bless u both.. May u both b a blessing unto many sharing the Wonderful Word of our Lord & doing His Work. May u both b blessed n all ways ..May our Lord b Glorified n ur lives…God Glorified His Name through u wen u were n Coimbatore n Zion AOG Church.God bless u…

  • Suman Prem Kumar

    Congrats Pastor.. God Bless you and Tiny.

  • ramsha

    hi.shyju…..congratulations…..

    giv my love to tiny……..god bless u both……..!!!!

    miss tiny alots……

  • http://yahoo.com ramsha

    hi .congratulations…..

    give my love to tiny……..god bless you both……

    i miss tiny alots…..!!!!
    kuwait….

  • sujith

    Congragulations..May god Bless u

  • Acksha

    oh my lord!! u both look so awsome together =)
    bless u both a million and a happy future with the lord!

  • Pithoo

    Dear Shyju, Really happy for you! God bless and make His face shine on you both.

  • Malou Sayson

    CONGRATULATIONS!!! Bless you BOTH!!!

  • shantini

    congratulations.god bless both of you forever a

  • Sharyn

    AWWWW, Shyju u cudnt have descirbed tweets ny better….Im gonna miss my other half nw dat she joins her better half:P congratz tweety and shyju. u guys are a dynamic couple fo Jesus! rock dis world rire side up…muah Shar-Ranjit x

  • Anish Philip

    May our Father in heaven bless you both to minister with a greater anointing.
    Amen!

  • Harry Cruz

    Hey Shyju,

    Awesome :) Congratulations to both of you for the life ahead God has for you both :)

    God bless

  • Elizabeth

    Praise God! I am so happy for you Brother Shyju, God Bless you and Tiny with a blessed future ahead.
    God Bless
    Elizabeth

  • Ritty alexander

    This is really amazing!..congrats and may both of you together do wonders in Gods name!.. God Bless! :)

  • gina leong

    Dear Bro Shyju, We truly rejoice for you for your wedding to Sis Tiny Rajan tomorrow 7th April 2010 at 10am. She truly looks gorgeous her eyes especially ha! ha! but nevertheless what is most of importance is the heart and being a god fearing woman ( like what you have mentioned that she is, amen to it! ) and
    a supportive wife who will always by husband during rain or shine.
    Our utmost prayer to both as you both continue to start off your first crusade together from the 22nd of April in Kisaran, Indonesia and the all rest of the scheduled in your calendar. Amen!

    Again Congratulations! God is good, All the time, and all the time God is good.

  • Mala

    Father, in the name of Jesus, it is written in Your Word that Love, is shed across in the hearts of Tiny and Shyju by the Holy Spirit, who is given to them. WE acknowledge that love reigns supreme. We believe that the is displayed in the expression enfolding and knitting them together in truth, making them prefect for every good work to do YOUR WILL, working in them which is pleasing in YOUR SIGHT. Their marriage grows stronger day by day in the bond of unity founded on the YOUR WORD, rooted and grounded in YOUR LOVE. We thank you, FATHER for the performance of it in JESUS NAME.

    Love Both of You, and joining You in the celebration of your marriage. Next time when both of you are in Mumbai or Singapore come and stay over at my place.

    Like your new website.

    My Prayer 4 Both of U :)

  • sarah

    Hey Bro….
    Very Happy for u… I wish Tiny and U wonderful years of marriage.. God Bless You Both.. Let ur Life be a blessing to many.. Love you both…

  • http://www.abhamb.com Abha

    Dear Brother,

    God bless your new life with endless happiness and joy!
    Congratulations

    Abha Banerjee

  • felicia

    Happy wedding bro! Congratulations to Mr and Mrs. Mathew!!! My prayer is that everyday, you both will fall deeper in love with each other as you fall deeper in love with Christ! I also pray that as you fulfill your destinies in Christ and plunder the goods of the enemy together- you will both encounter new victories and encounters with the Lord everyday! I thank God for the both of you- two dynamic people who love Jesus-merging into one- being world changers one day at a blessed and precious time! wohoo!

    Your sis in christ,
    Felicia

  • Delma

    congrats dear bro…..wishin u a blessed married life…………….

  • jessy abraham

    congragts,,,,wish you both a happy married life.____from jithin u met in dubai. joy uncle.jessy auntie__u.k. tel…00442380466333

  • Diana

    Dear brother, God bless you !! have a gr8 married life ahead. may you multiply and have dominion over everything in your life.
    take care!!

  • http://www.onfireministries.org Rencin Matthew

    Dear bro,

    Marriage is divine and so the are the people who are joined together. I bless you both in the name of the Lord. May you both live for God and fulfill all His plans in your lives.

    God bless,

    Rencin Matthew
    On Fire Ministries

  • Marilena

    hi shyju and tiny,

    Congratulations! The Bible says that he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains FAVOUR from the Lord. And that God's anger might be for a moment but His FAVOUR is for life! So you've just been favoured by God! We rejoice with you both! PS. Please forgive me Shyju for not replying to your email yet, just simply had too much on lately and many emails behind. I will reply about the TB Joshua issue soon.

  • samson

    finally the man is married :P congrats bro!! God bless you and your wife!

  • Mini Reese

    dear shyju

    wishing you the Lord's favor and guidance in this new chapter of your life. reesechayan and me are very happy for you. as solomon wondered 'who can find a virtuous woman? her price is far above rubies' our especial regards to tiny, the new addition to your wonderful family. our love to kunjumol aunty, achenkunj uncle and shynu also.
    because he is every faithful….

    Reese and Mini (Mangalore)

  • Sherlin

    Very happy to hear this………good match……best wish for your future

  • stef

    congrats bro !!!! wish u a happy married life !!! Bless ya an d fam !!! :)

  • raj khati

    congrats bro God bless

  • Reeji

    Congrats Shyju

    wishing u all the best for married life and let God keep pouring his blessings on both of you…
    will keep u in our prayers.

    reeji and Blesson

  • Jaimy Alex

    Hey Shyju..

    i tried contacting you but could not and even fb didnt let me add you as a friend :-( I hope my dad sent you my wishes mail.. since i didnt have ur email.. congrats to the 2 of u and may god bless the 2 of u abundantly and may u continue to be blessed and be a blessing to the world.. have a wonderful married life and if you come down this side, pl do give us a call..

    Love,
    Jaimy

  • Asha George

    Hi Bro
    I belong to New Life Fellowship Church, Lokhandwala,
    I was there when you preached on a Easter Sunday
    Thanks for coming there and choosing our church for an Easter
    I felt very happy when I Heard you were getting married,
    My sincere wishes with you,
    May you lead a happy Family life and God help ypu to continues with your work………..

  • Jency Reji

    Praise The Lord!! Congratulations to both of you Mr. & Mrs. Shyju!! Tiny.. my special wishes for you dear.. God Bless You both and may God use you together to be a mighty blessing for so many people to come!!!

    God is sooo good!!!

  • Arpu

    Wish you a very happy married life, God bless you.

  • Byju

    GOD bless u bro…Remembering u and tiny in prayers…tk care

  • David

    Dear Bro.Shyju

    Congratulations!!! 2 u n ur blessed wife may Almighty GOD of all source bless you abundantly with all HIS Love, happiness, prosperity through all of your days and may HE use both of U mightily for HIS kingdom.

    GOD BLESS YOU !!!

  • Giftson

    Congrats Bor!!!!God Bless..

  • Dr.kishore

    God bless u both….

  • Aneesh

    Hi Bro Shyju..

    Wish you a happy married life..God Blesss you are always in my Prayer..

    Aneesh Bangalore AG

  • M.Jerome

    Anna , Have a BLESSED and happy married life ……. May GOD be with you & Tiny akka …

  • Timothy

    God bless you!!!

  • mamatha.

    PRAISE THE LORD JESUS GOD ALMIGHTY.

    BLESSINGS TO YOU BOTH.

    MAKE HIS FACE SHINE UPON YOU.

    Mamatha.

    From Vijayawada,

    Andhra Pradesh ,

    INDIA.

  • Chetan

    Hey congratulations man May the lord’s richest blessing be with you both and help you find his Eternal treasures.

  • SANTHI GRACE

    CONGRATES

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